Electric play can sound super intimidating to someone who has never played with it and maybe even on the verge of scary. When done properly with the right tools it can actually elevate your connection with your play partner and bring your erotic sensitivity to new heights, IF you enjoy a little pain with your pleasure. It is not meant to be a torture device but truly amplify the pleasure in the moment. Of course it’s important to know what you’re playing with and keeping this safe and consensual, so let’s break down the basics and get you introduced to a few of my most favorite toys I’ve played with over the years.
What is electric play?
Electric play is erotic stimulation involving the application of electrical stimulation to the nerves of the body, with particular emphasis but not limited to erogenous zones using a power source. It feels like a prickly tingle sensation at the point of contact that may continue out from the initial point outward, depending on the strength. In the right controlled situation it should be enough to make your hair stand up but not enough to be truly painful or uncomfortable. Having a safe word is important for this reason.
What kind of tools are used?
There are many tools that can be altered to be used as a source for electric play, but for the point of education we will discuss the toys made specifically for sexual stimulation. My favorite is the Violet Wand. It has been used for all sorts of things like regrowing hair, but the different attachments are perfect for sensual play. It is a plugged in, hand held device that has different glass extensions that you can attach that feeds the electricity delicately through to the skin with a gauge to then it up or down to the desire of your partner. A similar device that is more well-known as it is used in physical therapy is a TENS unit. It does similar things at the violet wand except with leads that are stuck on specific parts of your body. Once you’ve learned the basics you may add other toys like a wartenberg wheel to add to the sensations, but that may be for another blog.
How to begin?
First make sure that you are plugged in to a surge protected plug if you can and have all fluids far enough away from your play area to stay safe. I always try the toys on myself first to ensure I know how strong the current feels. Never let it get near or on the eyes and never put it inside of any orifice (that’s your holes!). If you are playing with partners, the next thing to do is discuss safe words, boundaries, and setting the expectations for what levels they want to experience. On dry skin start with a low level, light touch somewhere safe such as the arm or leg to gauge your or your partner’s reaction to it. Once you/your partner finds a level you like, start exploring! Dont be shy, play with your magic touch and watch how the body reacts!
Staying safe:
Electric play is fun, but it also can hurt someone, even leaving multiple degree burns on the skin or cause nerve damage at the touch point. It is possible to turn up the dials too hot, leave the TENS unit patches on one area for too long, or any number of other things if you aren’t using the toys correctly that can wound someone. You always want to take care to not use electric play toys in or around water, so not bath tub play, no shower scenes, and be careful with too much body fluids, if you’re a girl like me who makes quite the mess! You also want to check in with your partner on a regular basis, especially if they happen to be ball gagged or have anything impeding their ability to easily use their safe word. It’s also easy to fall into subspace (you can read up on that here) so making sure you check in is also vital to making it a happy, healthy encounter.
Exploring New Kinks
Exploring new kinks is always supposed to entice and arouse the senses, but never injure or cross boundaries without full understanding and consent. Starting out slow and learning as you go along, either on your own or with your partner, is important to ensure everyone’s safety. I have other blogs talking about other ways to play as well as introductions into new kinks and toys. Explore candle wax play here or how to pick your Domme here. If you have any questions or suggestions for my next blog topic, reach out and let me know!
Until next time ~ Divine Goddess EveB
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